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re: Is it ok for your girlfriend to go to an Ex's family member funeral?

Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:39 am to
Posted by ctiger69
Member since May 2005
30616 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:39 am to
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There's no strict yes or no answer to whether this is okay. You made this thread because you don't trust her. Is that mistrust justified? You have to figure that out.




No trust issues. Just pissed off our plans changed last second when she said yesterday she was not going.
Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
19430 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:40 am to
She values the feelings of her ex over yours....


It should not matter to her what he thinks of her, unless they're fricking.

It should matter to her what you think of her
This post was edited on 10/24/14 at 11:41 am
Posted by genro
Member since Nov 2011
61788 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:40 am to
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No trust issues.
I can't imagine why else you would make this thread.

Like I said there's no Yes or No answer. It depends on your relationship
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
21611 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:40 am to
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This guy's grandmother died and my girlfriend felt like she had to go. I don't understand why?


Because she hasn't let go completely.


quote:

Well, this morning comes and she now decides she has to go.


Because "ex" contacted her overnight.

quote:

I know her ex emails her but she says she does not respond.


And you really believe that?

Just wait until tomorrow when the 90 minute trip is too long for her to drive back and she thinks she better "get a hotel room" and stay over.
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
73681 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:40 am to
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Just pissed off our plans changed last second when she said yesterday she was not going.


Sounds like a dick move by you. If she feels she should be there you should be supportive.

Don't try to use reasoning when it comes to female emotions.
Posted by Teddy Ruxpin
Member since Oct 2006
39622 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:40 am to
I'll reiterate that I doubt the ex is just emailing into oblivion without her responding.
Posted by ctiger69
Member since May 2005
30616 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:41 am to
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If so, yes she should go. Also, are you mad about the inconvenience or her going to an ex event?



A little of both. The dude emailed her last month saying he was still in love with her. This did not got over to well with me. She said she did not write back.
Posted by heartbreakTiger
grinding for my grinders
Member since Jan 2008
138974 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:41 am to
your girl is getting banged out by her ex. sorry brah
Posted by CaptainsWafer
TD Platinum Member
Member since Feb 2006
58399 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:41 am to
This guy gets it.
Posted by GeeOH
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2013
13376 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:42 am to
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Yeah it's fine


Normally yes, but in a situation where family out of state plans have to be changed, NO WAY.

That's why they have viewings/wakes the day before. She could go, show her respects, and go with her new life out of state. There is NO reason for her to watch the casket go in the ground.

Listen to me, your SO is about to be your ex. She has feelings for the ex and might already be banging him, for sure they have been talking. Just wait till she calls you later after the funeral and tells you she's going by their house afterwards.

Sorry bro
Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
19430 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:42 am to
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A little of both. The dude emailed her last month saying he was still in love with her. This did not got over to well with me. She said she did not write back.



Holy frick!

Dude you are fricking delusional
Posted by GetEmGates225
Member since Oct 2014
88 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:43 am to
Ex is gonna PIIHB.
Posted by ctiger69
Member since May 2005
30616 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:43 am to
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Sounds like a dick move by you



I am kind of pissed off on here. I have been nice and supportive to her so far.


Trying to decide how I should talk to her later.
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
73681 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:43 am to
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The dude emailed her last month saying he was still in love with her. This did not got over to well with me.


As an outside observer, you need to get all of this straight quick.

Personally, I think she wants the door open to that relationship and you are about to find out. The ex is emailing her because she hasn't ended the relationship. She needs to end the relationship and going to family events is not how you do that.

ETA: this isn't about your plans being changed.
This post was edited on 10/24/14 at 11:44 am
Posted by heartbreakTiger
grinding for my grinders
Member since Jan 2008
138974 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:44 am to
dude probably killed his own grandmaw to get her back. He is playing the pity card and your girl finally gave in. IMO you need to drop her and move on.
Posted by DaBeerz
Member since Sep 2004
17006 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:44 am to
Need pics before I can pass judgement
Posted by Dylan
Bayou Barbary
Member since May 2009
3414 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:44 am to
Nothing wrong at all with her going.
Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
19430 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:44 am to
Like I said.

She still values his opinion of her. Why in the frick would she value his opinion if there wasn't something there?

If someone can answer that question I will shut up.
Posted by lsuhunt555
Teakwood Village Breh
Member since Nov 2008
38418 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:45 am to
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Death is nature's aphrodisiac

Posted by CajunAlum Tiger Fan
The Great State of Louisiana
Member since Jan 2008
7880 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:46 am to
You either have trust issues, insecurity issues, or both. Girls hate that shite.

If you give her a hard time, the end is near.
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