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At what point does a SO become too irresponsible to be with?
Posted on 9/21/14 at 2:40 pm
Posted on 9/21/14 at 2:40 pm
thread was bumped, content doesn't matter anymore or garner discussion.
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Posted on 9/21/14 at 2:42 pm to Tigerfan56
#ugh #canteven
This post was edited on 9/21/14 at 2:44 pm
Posted on 9/21/14 at 2:44 pm to Tigerfan56
Inb4: Pics?
Posted on 9/21/14 at 2:45 pm to Tigerfan56
I would say before she starts doing the shite you've described here.
Posted on 9/21/14 at 2:45 pm to Tigerfan56
Welcome to the joys of women.
Posted on 9/21/14 at 2:46 pm to Tigerfan56
Dude, get out now.
Posted on 9/21/14 at 2:46 pm to Tigerfan56
You sound like a pussy. She's 24.
Posted on 9/21/14 at 2:46 pm to Tigerfan56
Sounds like a pretty typical chick, honestly. I know there are rare exceptions, but at least she isn't racking up 150K in law school debt when the market is saturated, or worse yet still living off her parents at 24. I'd talk to her about it if it bothers you, but it could be a LOT worse.
Posted on 9/21/14 at 2:46 pm to Tigerfan56
Her debt will be your debt if you marry. Just a reminder.
ETA: Also, I'm sure she knew she got paid vacation. She just didn't want to pick up groceries because she either spent the money elsewhere or she has the "my money is mine" attitude.
ETA: Also, I'm sure she knew she got paid vacation. She just didn't want to pick up groceries because she either spent the money elsewhere or she has the "my money is mine" attitude.
This post was edited on 9/21/14 at 2:48 pm
Posted on 9/21/14 at 2:48 pm to Tigerfan56
Serious answer.
Her vagina has you memorized. Dump Her.
Her vagina has you memorized. Dump Her.
Posted on 9/21/14 at 2:50 pm to Tigerfan56
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I've been dating this girl for 8 months. Were in love
Posted on 9/21/14 at 2:51 pm to Tigerfan56
I screwed up with money big time in my 20s(racked up a lot of credit card debt while in college...back then it was easy to sign up for credit cards).
I'd say her behavior isn't something you would want her to continue longterm. But it isn't like her situation is hopeless.
When you first start getting real paychecks...it's easy to want to do the things you couldn't afford to do while broke in college. I remember buying extravagant Christmas presents for my family that first Christmas when I was a nurse. I had the money to do so and wanted to splurge. Just have a lil chat with her. She's single, no kids and her only responsibility is to herself right now. She'll figure it out. Don't be the guy that watches every penny she spends. Then she will just end up leaving you and go even crazier with the spending.
Wish I could have told myself back then to watch out.
I'd say her behavior isn't something you would want her to continue longterm. But it isn't like her situation is hopeless.
When you first start getting real paychecks...it's easy to want to do the things you couldn't afford to do while broke in college. I remember buying extravagant Christmas presents for my family that first Christmas when I was a nurse. I had the money to do so and wanted to splurge. Just have a lil chat with her. She's single, no kids and her only responsibility is to herself right now. She'll figure it out. Don't be the guy that watches every penny she spends. Then she will just end up leaving you and go even crazier with the spending.
Wish I could have told myself back then to watch out.
Posted on 9/21/14 at 2:52 pm to Tigerfan56
$650 for rent is not a lot IMO
Also her debt is very small. There are plenty of people with 100ks of debt. Sounds like she handled herself well during college or her parents helped a lot.
Also her debt is very small. There are plenty of people with 100ks of debt. Sounds like she handled herself well during college or her parents helped a lot.
Posted on 9/21/14 at 2:53 pm to Tigerfan56
Sounds like you might be better suited being with a dude
Posted on 9/21/14 at 2:53 pm to Tigerfan56
I would legitimately advise her to dump you.
Posted on 9/21/14 at 2:56 pm to Tigerfan56
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]I've been dating this girl for 8 months.[/b] Were in love and it's very serious. Every aspect of the relationship is great. We get along, don't have major issues, except one.
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She racked up 350$ of unpaid parking and speeding tickets which I had to pay for her when she got pulled over, for her to keep her license. She says she'll pay me back but I'm not counting on it nor do I care that much.
What the hell dude...
Posted on 9/21/14 at 3:00 pm to Tigerfan56
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yet signed a lease for a 1 BR apartment that's $650/month.
Jeezuz man. Where do you expect her to live, off Plank road?
Posted on 9/21/14 at 3:00 pm to Tigerfan56
I'd talk to her about it....if you guys gets married a lot of churches have you go on a marriage encounter and a lot of that is gone over. You must be equally yoked especially with finances or ahits real. A large reason people split is fricking finances
Posted on 9/21/14 at 3:02 pm to Tigerfan56
But seriously, if you are as serious as you say you are, and you are worried about things like how much she pays for rent, why don't you move in together? That way she wouldn't have to spend $650/month on rent. You aren't going to find a nice 1 BR for less
Posted on 9/21/14 at 3:03 pm to Tigerfan56
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24 years old
She's 24, not 34. No need to panic yet.
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