re: What?

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Having the crush doesn't make you a piece of shite. Acting on it would. You are human and it's not natural to only be attracted to one person in the entire world.

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This.

Anyone who believes that is only one man for one woman in this world is naive or never been divorced. There are hundreds, maybe thousands of combinations of people out there that would make awesome couples. Of course you're going to meet one sooner or later.

But how you deal with that is the key. Temptation is a nasty fricker, and the ruiner of many a life. A real man understands what's up and just beats off to the fantasy, never acting on the temptation.

I happen to be one that got to live out my fantasy and never saw it coming.

I was working with a girl who was a Tyger_Tyger 10. She was smoke show hot, funny, liked similar music and movies, the works. We became friends and I knew she was just as attracted to me. I never acted on it and we kept all dealings friendly but professional. She left the company and we lost contact. A few years later my marriage ended due to completely unrelated issues. I went about my life for a couple of years more and one day Fantasy girl sent me an e-mail to see how I'd been. We ended up dating for about a year of wildness that surpassed any possible fantasy I could have dreamed up. It was a roller coaster of inhibition.

It didn't last, but man, that was one hell of a ride.