re: Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.

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You are going to get screwed, and not in a good way. I agree with the rest of the OT who thinks your property is going to wind up being used by the BF to be a barricaded standoff set piece in some played out on TV drama where you went to talk her down and got held hostage before being shot.

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Also, have you ever heard of the word enabler? She is going to get everything she can out of this relationship, whether it be money, companionship, a place to hang out, etc.

How about just cut things off completely before you get burned. You don't have to be mother Theresa