re: Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.

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Tell her you don't mind listening to her and giving advice if asked. But not to go out to your place without an invite and you present.

Also, let her know the neighbors do keep an eye on it for you and if they can't reach you, they will call the sheriff who will call it trespassing.

Beyond encouraging words to get her moving in the right direction, I'd not offer anything else.

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thanks. that's pretty much what I was thinking too... figured it wouldn't hurt to get a few opinions before I talk to her