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Dr Kongara in BR will make you feel normal about this. True story. To paraphrase his advice, "find steady safe side action that keeps you content, don't ruin your marriage by telling her, and this is perfectly normal for people with bigger sexual appetites than others."

He made it clear that this doesn't include high risk sleeping with hookers, dudes, animals, kids, shite like that. But that side action is perfectly normal and is a societal restriction, not a malfunction of human behavior.

So wait, this so called doctor is telling people it's OK to screw around on your wife or person you're involved with in a committed relationship? How about the vow? What's he say about our normal propensity to breaking promises? Completely normal? What kind of degree does this quack have?

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Posted by mikelbr

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Posted on 6/12/14 at 10:04 am to Mike da Tigah

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So wait, this so called doctor is telling people it's OK to screw around on your wife or person you're involved with in a committed relationship? How about the vow? What's he say about our normal propensity to breaking promises? Completely normal? What kind of degree does this quack have?

He's an MD off Essen lane. Psychiatrist. I only went once as I didn't want to cheat no mo.

But it's just a monkey wrench in this whole what's an addiction, what's normal, etc.
His point was there are levels of urges and that many marriages survive by one or both spouses getting that one little thing they don't get at home.
And that the side action serves a greater purpose of keeping marriage stable all that hubbub for the kids' sake and such.

I don't agree with him. Like I said, I went once.

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