re: "The Spark"of Female Mythology Does Not Exist. It's just being DTF.

beans and i used to go back and forth about it

"the spark" is just an undefined term based in emotions and skewed self perception. it's romantic

i mean the whole concept of romance is basically destroyed once we break down our interactions and preferences into the actual bits of what makes us interact with each other.

just think about cultural memes like romance novels, love stories, rom coms, etc. they're all pretty much worthless once you get down to the gist of "they both want to frick each other" and that's that