re: Can you say no?

my ex showed up at my house a few months ago, stripped down to her thong, and threw herself at me after work.

I walked away and told her to leave. She kept going after me for 15 minutes or so until I called a friend to get her out of my house.

Crazy frickin woman. First time I've probably ever said no when it was thrown at me and it was a very smart thing to do. ended up filing an incident report on her because she kept showing up at my house.