re: "Crying it out" with an infant - OT Parents, how was your first experience?

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Watch the clock--literally. 2 minutes feels like forever. Let him cry 10-15 minutes and if he's still screaming crying go in there touch him and comfort him but do not pick him up! Continue this until he's asleep. It'll probably take 2-3 times the first night. Don't go in once he starts the crying and stopping then crying again game. He's just listening for you and is seeing if you'll give in. At that point hell be asleep soon just keep waiting.

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^This. Nailed it.

We raised three kids (2 LSU grads, one on the way!) Be firm but understanding. Check on them, calm them, but do not pick up. No, they won't hate you. They will learn that bedtime means just that.

Think of this as practice for the tougher lessons you'll need to teach later on. Use common sense and be just and you'll be fine.