re: Complicated marriage/legal question involving finances

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I know tons of ppl on here are saying “get a lawyer” etc but i swore to love her in sickness and health. - I’m not going to caste her aside during this time- especially because of our children (we have 4, three boys and one girl) need to see a loving father.

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That's all well and good, but talk to a lawyer any way and protect yourself and your kids. Right now, only one person wants to preserve and fix the marriage -- it takes two.

I hope you can get things straightened out, and that would be the best possible outcome, but that does not mean you should avoid taking prudent steps now to protect yourself, your finances, and your children.

A legal separation may be a good intermediate step, but talk to a lawyer and find out your options like today.