re: Why do people always blame the victim when things happen?

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sorry but you need to brush up on your fighting skills because you need to confront all of them in front of the whole family

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the fighting serves no purpose - most of the time that is trailer park and ghetto style. No one needs to "catch hands." You didn't get any peace from that, just drama.

Act as if they have dropped off the face of the earth. No drama, just peace and move on. It works.