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re: Anyone else not on speaking terms with a parent?

Posted on 5/8/24 at 5:47 am to
Posted by Bear88
Member since Oct 2014
13471 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 5:47 am to
Dad died a couple of years ago . He was a great father for 24 years , then on my parents 31st anniversary , he ran off with a beer joint whore ( who I knew there was something there) and tried to screw several people out of money on his way out ( and successfully stole from my moms mother) . My wife was pregnant with our first child at the time too. He stayed gone with no trace for about 6 months , then when found , he tried to come back and act like it was not his fault . My mother kept his company going ( with the help of my uncle ) to pay off the money he stole from people . We went 14 years without speaking and we eventually got to where we spoke occasionally on the phone . I saw him once in those last 20 years before he passed. Kills me that he really had no relationship with my kids and missed them growing up. Still baffles me bc he was a GREAT father to me growing up and was liked / loved by so many people
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
266189 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 6:33 am to
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What's the reason you don't speak to yours?


You'll regret it.
Posted by HarryCallahan
Member since Sep 2015
152 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 6:37 am to
I don’t speak to my father. Parents divorced for 23 years now. He married the woman he cheated with. Whatever. My issue is he has totally removed himself from my kid’s lives as well as my siblings’ kids lives. He hasn’t been to any milestone events even though he has been invited. He has totally shunned his own blood for grandkids who aren’t his..there are other issues but this one is the biggest grievance I have. You can’t speak to him about it because he avoids any confrontation. It is absolutely amazing what shame will do to a person.
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
206901 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 10:51 am to
Money
Is really that important to you????
Posted by bbarras85
Member since Jul 2021
2045 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 12:03 pm to
This thread is beyond depressing. I guess I am lucky to have two parents that are amazing people. So amazing that I purchased the house next door to there home. They raised four kids who turned out to be successful adults.

Recently my father told me that each of us will receive a large inheritance when he is gone (he is only 65) to my reply was spend every last penny you have enjoying life. There is no reason to leave a penny for me at all and that's the way money should be handled. enjoy your life, i don't need your money, I will make my own way.
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
122636 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 12:11 pm to
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I caught her trying to rob me of my father's inheritance.


It was her money
Posted by BeachDude022
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Member since Dec 2006
35286 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 12:14 pm to
I'm not on speaking terms with my god daughter, mainly because i missed her out of state wedding due to a surgery I had scheduled before she scheduled her wedding. She refuses to talk to me now. Oh well
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