re: Anyone move their parents in?

I'm terrified of the day my wife asks me if her mom can move in with us.

Her mom is a narcissistic, know it all, who makes terrible decisions financially and just generally. She's in her 70's and still working b/c she has to. She makes decent money, but squanders it on stupid shite. At that age, you don't need more things imo, especially if you are still working b/c you have no retirement.

One day though, she'll be too frail to work and I know my wife, as the oldest and most responsible sibling, will want her to move in. If I object, I'm a monster in her siblings eyes.

My mom, i would take in 100% no questions asked. She's a nice woman who doesn't like to put anyone out. She wouldn't be a pain in the arse.