re: Dating as a 40 Year Old Man, How Realistic is it?

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These threads are starting to legitimately confuse me. 40 is PEAK dating for a man with his shite together. Are you reasonably attractive? Do you have some natural charm ? Are you a good listener? Do you enjoy being in the presence of women?

If so , just go where women you like hangout and start chatting. Stay off the dating sites and just go to where the women are and smile and chat and do your thing. Women are waiting for you to make the first move and find it attractive. Even though the dating scene is screwy , it’s still relatively easy to make an IRL connection based on your good energy and natural charm. You are overthinking this.

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im married and happily married but i look around and yea being early 40s its easy to date. you have money, or should have....being single ole dude should be in really good shape....he should have confidence but obviously doest


sounds like a couple things...

1) dude needs to up his game in his career. You single, become a bad arse at work and start banking

2) dude needs to get his arse in the gym and start slinging heavy arse slag iron, get big and strong

3) dude need to take some classes in person or online on how to talk to women and start approaching them. he sounds like a scared HS kid that is scared of rejection. Why give a frick what some cum dumpster thinks?