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re: My Mom has been getting worse with her dementia

Posted on 3/31/24 at 4:09 pm to
Posted by Kashmir
Member since Dec 2014
7825 posts
Posted on 3/31/24 at 4:09 pm to
My dad and I took care of mom until she passed. It was heartbreaking, especially the final days when she could not understand how to eat, drink, swallow, etc.
I hate to tell you it’s going to get a lot worse.
When awake, mom constantly walked in circles. She would not sit down. She constantly begged to “go home” to see her daddy who had died in the 1950s. It was so damn sad.
My best advice is to try to be patient. I convinced myself the last few months that she was not the same person who had been the rock of our family, and it made her passing easier to take. My parents had been married for 62 years, and I think dad had come to the same conclusion I had. My brother and sister lived hours away, and they took her death pretty hard. Seeing her deterioration on a regular basis kinda prepared me for her passing several months in advance.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98385 posts
Posted on 3/31/24 at 4:41 pm to
My mother is not to that point yet but if/when she does I'm going to tell myself she's in there somewhere and on some level she knows me and knows I'm trying to help even if she can't express it.
Posted by ronricks
Member since Mar 2021
7117 posts
Posted on 4/27/24 at 12:01 pm to
It’s brutal. One characteristic of my grandmother who had dementia was she constantly wanted to see or talk to people who had long been dead. Luckily she was able to stay at home with my grandfather and a caretaker until she died. I am thankful for that.
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