re: Question for OT Parents with older kids

26 yr old is self sufficient and paid for her own grad school. 24 year old is mostly self sufficient but we make him small loans from time to time and have forgiven some loans because he took a full ride scholarship to college. We pay college expenses for 20 yr old and give him $600 a month for food/social. Anything else he spends his own money. All are on our cell phone plan bc it does not cost us extra for them.