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re: Any of you fellas on the dating sites

Posted on 3/5/24 at 7:51 pm to
Posted by LSU Delts
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2007
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Posted on 3/5/24 at 7:51 pm to
I tried twice after my divorce years ago.
First lady was attractive, bigger boobs and a few pounds above where she should be but still was sexy. When she met me for cocktails, her hips were twice as wide, shoulders twice as wide and boobs twice as big. It was her in the pictures but they weren’t recent. That pissed me off. She was loaded with money also.

Second meet with a new lady. She was more attractive than advertised. Corporate woman. We both worked for Fortune 500 companies. Great meet up until she started asking me about my 401k, how long have I been saving in it, etc. She was trying to dig deeper. (Last woman I dated for about a year before her or this dating app became very interested in my money and how I was spending it on my children. I told her that I worked for my money and will spend it as I see fit.) Relayed this information to her and told her that I don’t think we are a match. Never touched that app again.
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
6546 posts
Posted on 3/5/24 at 9:05 pm to
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Great meet up until she started asking me about my 401k, how long have I been saving in it, etc. She was trying to dig deeper.


Understand that she's probably dated a bunch of dudes that were lawyers but would hit her up for a payment for their BMW.

Are you a female that's responsible, or are you feeding your child support to the tune of thousands of dollars a month into lifestyle, and then when we retire, you totally depend on what I've done for decades? My ex-wife is setting up this train wreck with college funding in real time. And yet I'm going to be the a-hole that says I'm not paying your tuition to {private SEC school.}

In the female defense, there are a lot of dudes, that make a lot of money, that are barely solvent (child support, gambling, car expenses, etc.) I understand why she'd ask. She's trying to determine your financial responsibility, which I also pay attention to, just not in such a ham fisted way as she did.

Dating sites make men feel worse about themselves than they should. It's not helpful. OP, don't get emotional until months into the relationship. Just have fun. Most women are just looking for, eh, physical intimacy, if they're not of child bearing age.
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