re: How to deal with women who just use others

I think all men have been used at one point or another by a woman. Manipulation (in an evolutionary biological sense for reasons related to survival as the physically weaker sex) is baked into women, and some fight the tendency nobly and others use it in the most destructive and cynical manner. My own mother would casually do the most manipulative things to me, for instance and I had to minimize my contact with her because of it. I think the important thing is figuring out if you subconsciously think you deserve it, figuring out why you feel that way, and putting an end to it. Being Captain Save A Ho is not a good strategy for a happy life.