re: Starting Over After Divorce

I am happily married. But still hit a bar here and there with buddies many times with a divorced buddy. If I were so inclined I could have cleaned up. It all amounts to location. If you are in a small Louisiana town? Move if possible. Wherever you can go for a fresh start and still be close enough to kid/kids. Being married narrowed your hobbies. You now have every other weekend for hobbies.


Think of positives. How many “man if I knew then, when I was single, what I know now, so much would change…”. You are there now. Test it and report your findings.


There’s plenty to be upset about. There are also bright spots. You found some shite out at 40 instead of 50. That’s a plus.