re: She's Out of My League

I have an opinion that more than 2/3 points differential on the hotness scale causes problems. Most specifically when a couple used to be well matched but there has been weight change/surgery/difference in aging in one spouse.

If I’m being vulnerable here, my husband (inspite of my moniker, I’m a woman) has gotten even better looking as he’s gotten older and gotten some gray/grown a beard and it makes me nervous.