re: What happened to the cheating wife thread?

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A wife cheating is deeper than the sex part. Sex is just the symptom of a larger issue. It's more about the "why?" and the painful answers that follow.

More importantly, it's the broken trust that will ultimately end this dude's marriage, no matter what earnest-but-temporary bandaids are applied. Every time she's hours late, or unreachable by phone, or gets a text, etc., no matter how innocent/benign, the dude will make himself (& her) miserable with the "Where've you been?", "Why didn't you answer?" & "Who's that?" pre-fight questions. It's irreparable now, no matter how long they fool each other that it's working.

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This!

Even if you wanted to forgive you have to live in constant worry state she was doing it again. I'll pass...