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re: Married couples with an "arrangement"
Posted on 11/7/23 at 7:05 am to StringedInstruments
Posted on 11/7/23 at 7:05 am to StringedInstruments
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There was an interesting Peter Attia podcast episode with a doctor who specializes in women’s sexual health. Women experience sex differently than men. Men tend to be fairly linear in that arousal leads to desire. Also, men tend to always be in a heightened state of desire for sex, but even if they aren’t, it only takes a bit of arousal for them to want it. Women can get aroused for sex, but they have much more difficult time desiring it. This is why many men express frustration towards their wives because their wives never want to have sex, but when they do, the sex is good. As you said, who doesn’t like to nut? Well, apparently women do but they don’t really want to. Getting them into a state of desire requires a lot more effort and more of a coddled lifestyle to minimize stress. It also requires more emotional connection over a period of time for there to be a sustained, healthy sex life (desire). At least, that’s how the doctor explained it.
Only women could think that makes any sense at all.
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Posted on 11/7/23 at 9:04 am to grizzlylongcut
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Only women could think that makes any sense at all.
It makes sense. Picture wanting to have sex as a light bulb. Men typically have a dimmer switch and the light is always on to some degree. Seeing something they perceive as sexy or being physically close to someone they are atteacted to turns the dimmer switch up and the light gets brighter. Many women (I admit I only partially understand the ones I've been with) operate in default with that bulb off, so they aren't desiring sex until something hits the switch. The switch isn't as predictable as it is with men. It's usually triggered by less visual/physical things and more by emotional needs being met..ie letting them know you are thinking of them and appreciate them.
But some women are different due to nature (the whore gene) or nurture (daddy issues) and use sex to get attention instead of the other way around.
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