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re: Genuine OT help on a new engagee

Posted on 10/9/23 at 12:00 pm to
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
47509 posts
Posted on 10/9/23 at 12:00 pm to
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OP’s fiancee doesn’t seem emotionally stable enough to plan a destination wedding


That may be true. The description is awfully odd. They've talked about getting married etc... for a long time and now, it's a trauma drama. Maybe she's OCD. Something definitely isn't right here and unless there's a dramatic change in her, she's not going to make it through this.

Planning weddings is stressful. It's the nature of the beast, but it shouldn't be so stressful that the stress overshadows the event. If she's this stressful now, she's going to go bonkers on the weekend of the event and she won't enjoy it.
Posted by RocketPower13
Member since Jan 2017
2484 posts
Posted on 10/9/23 at 4:11 pm to
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trauma drama


She and I both have a past, as does everyone. We're both flourishing independently in our professional lives. This situation caught me off guard, but I'm reading a lot of positive comments.

Thank you all.

The thing that gets me is that I didn't propose to be engaged indefinitely, we planned on this, we talked about this ahead of time, our families were under the same understanding..
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