re: Genuine OT help on a new engagee

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If you want everyone there, have it local. If you want it in Hawaii, lots of people won't go.

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If you want everyone you care about there, marry someone who understands why this is important and it's not a problem.

I think the OP just needs to hear from an outside perspective that all these delays and problems are not normal and certainly not the basis for a solid marriage.

My wife and I have had our problems but we agree on almost 90 percent of our issues. You want to be with someone you can problem solve with because life is hard.