re: Genuine OT help on a new engagee

The old marriage vows "richness poorness sickness and health" can this woman handle life? If you were to become ill, would she collapse or leave you because there were too many decisions to make?

She sounds like a third grader planning her birthday party. Has she grown up? She loves you, does she love being a bride a lot more?

After the wedding, will she be depressed because the future is going to be boring? She needs a mental evaluation and maybe you do, too.