re: Genuine OT help on a new engagee

She's a people pleaser, she wants the destination wedding, which could care less but I'm all in with her and what she wants. But she wants to make sure it can accommodate all of our family members across the states; her brides mades and some family are in Alaska. I want it to be her day and our union. That's the only guarantee. We've been in love from day 1, I mean that literally. I want her happiness, that's it. I know this means the world to her and I told her I can help in any way possible but she's overwhelmed and she just wants the perfect wedding without the headaches