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re: Are Young Men Truly Lost?
Posted on 10/1/23 at 7:35 pm to OceanTiger83
Posted on 10/1/23 at 7:35 pm to OceanTiger83
I will say this. As an experiment I have a few days left on a popular dating app. In the last two days I have swiped right to just over 500 women each day (and before you say how long does that take, give or take 5 - 10 minutes, not long).
Statistically I should get at least 10 matches doing that even if I'm not that attractive. 10 matches out of 1,000 is 1%. If I can't even get that then I know online dating is largely hopeless.
For the matches I get I'm going to go all chad (hate doing it but to use an incel term) and just cut straight to the case. I'm going to ask them if they want to meet up and just do a one night stand.
Like many of you here have said I have to get this drought off my back. Plus I've played nice guy for too long on these apps and in real life and it's gotten me no where. While it may seem like an ahole move to make it's going to be interesting to see if I have any success with this strategy.
Like some of you have said. With so many men dropping out of the dating scene that alone should increase my odds.
Statistically I should get at least 10 matches doing that even if I'm not that attractive. 10 matches out of 1,000 is 1%. If I can't even get that then I know online dating is largely hopeless.
For the matches I get I'm going to go all chad (hate doing it but to use an incel term) and just cut straight to the case. I'm going to ask them if they want to meet up and just do a one night stand.
Like many of you here have said I have to get this drought off my back. Plus I've played nice guy for too long on these apps and in real life and it's gotten me no where. While it may seem like an ahole move to make it's going to be interesting to see if I have any success with this strategy.
Like some of you have said. With so many men dropping out of the dating scene that alone should increase my odds.
This post was edited on 10/1/23 at 7:37 pm
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Posted on 10/1/23 at 7:40 pm to OceanTiger83
youre doing it wrong
you have to play it cool, push for the link but play it cool
they have to check your vibe in person. if they feel it, the pussy will come.
they are mainly looking for anyone breathing thats not a creep or desparate.
just pretend like you do this all the time and dont mention any of your weird fantasy shite, ever
you have to play it cool, push for the link but play it cool
they have to check your vibe in person. if they feel it, the pussy will come.
they are mainly looking for anyone breathing thats not a creep or desparate.
just pretend like you do this all the time and dont mention any of your weird fantasy shite, ever
Posted on 10/1/23 at 8:14 pm to OceanTiger83
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Plus I've played nice guy for too long on these apps
The internet isn’t real and internet dating partly isn’t either. There are too many labels and it is too easy to filter. It is easy for women to be militant feminists on the internet. It’s a lot harder to deny human connections without the labels & filters
Posted on 10/1/23 at 8:17 pm to OceanTiger83
I’m married with kids now, but met my wife online a decade ago. Online sucks, but it can be effective…well, a decade ago it could.
You don’t have any confidence and women can see it like a giant red flashing light. They will sniff it out before they even meet you.
You need to go out with a bunch of low hanging fruit and get actual confidence. Consider it practice. This whole deal is a game, and women want to play (I’ve had multiple tell me the game is stupid, but it is what it is). There is a loose strategy to it. Rules 1 and 2 are have confidence and don’t be weird.
Until you get any confidence, you’re wasting your time.
And never, under any circumstances, talk about that anime fetish with a woman you care to see again.
You don’t have any confidence and women can see it like a giant red flashing light. They will sniff it out before they even meet you.
You need to go out with a bunch of low hanging fruit and get actual confidence. Consider it practice. This whole deal is a game, and women want to play (I’ve had multiple tell me the game is stupid, but it is what it is). There is a loose strategy to it. Rules 1 and 2 are have confidence and don’t be weird.
Until you get any confidence, you’re wasting your time.
And never, under any circumstances, talk about that anime fetish with a woman you care to see again.
This post was edited on 10/1/23 at 8:20 pm
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