re: Boys coming of age party

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I disagree, we should be supporting children that are making the jump from children to manhood/womanhood.

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Then get him a bar mitzvah cake

Perplexing, most of these posters want to complain about kids now a days, and think this gathering is stupid, but this is exactly what we need. Up until recently, these are the types of relationships we have had for millennia, a multigenerational intrasex community. Young men looking up to their fathers and elders as examples, now they are raised by their peers and media. This is new and the definition of dysfunction. How is this seen as abnormal, new, or even effeminate.