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re: Soft White Underbelly- A Divorce Attorney’s Thoughts on Love and Marriage

Posted on 8/7/23 at 12:44 pm to
Posted by Sam Quint
Member since Sep 2022
4913 posts
Posted on 8/7/23 at 12:44 pm to
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It’s never a great idea to speak in absolutes. You’ve obviously had some very negative experiences with women, but that doesn’t mean all women are these miserable creatures that you described in your post

this is my only issue with what he is saying. i am not 100% convinced that this is all women, by nature. i have a terrible marriage that happens to line up with this, and he clearly had a bad one too. but i also know enough guys in almost the same exact situations to know that it's not an anomaly either. there's something to it. maybe it's what modern day Western culture and feminism has done to women, i dont know. but it's more than just a case of a couple guys with bad marriages getting butthurt and ranting on the internet. there are A LOT of really good men out there with wives who have absolutely no justifiable reason to be as toxic as they are.
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
79338 posts
Posted on 8/7/23 at 12:58 pm to
Now you Ol Boys might remember why Chicken pays me the big bucks to liven up these boring threads. I've been away so long things got stale. Glad to wake you ladies up.

To anyone who says I am generalizing. Mea Culpa. Of course, I'm generalizing, and I did note the existence of your Unicorn wife that you were successfully able to find in the wild. She's all that, and a bag of chips, your equal and probably superior, in every way. I applaud you Unicorn- couples.

Shame on anybody that would take something as beautiful as his daughter wearing his t shirt or sleeping with his pillows as scurrilous. It's beautiful and a testament to the beauty of the father-daughter bond. I'd wish every father could have that.

SFP- congenitally flaccid passive aggressiveness noted. But at least admit that I have NEVER blamed anything here on my ex. In fact, I've consistently done the opposite. She was a FINE mother, loving and supportive beyond my expectations.

How old are you Oilfield? And how long has your marriage lasted? And without getting personal or projecting, dispense some advice. I'd love to hear the wisdom you are sure to dispense; a little optimism to counter my realism, as it were...
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