re: Soft White Underbelly- A Divorce Attorney’s Thoughts on Love and Marriage

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Ma'am, as my father and grandfather before me, I have spent a LIFETIME "putting someone else above your (my) own base needs". This is what good men do NATURALLY. We sacrifice, bleed, nurture, give everything we have to our wives and children. As I type this my beloved daughter is in another room of my home sleeping in my bed because it makes her feel secure. Yesterday I moved her into her sorority house and she came back today because she needed her Daddy just like I need her. I'd put my "nurturing" up to yours and spot you 1000 acts of kindness, ma'am. But go ahead, condescend if it makes you feel superior. I am discussing the nature of WOMEN. I understand them. Rather than insulting me in the feminine manner, maybe you can provide a valid counterpoint. Tell us about the joys of marriage and the emotional well-being of American women. And then tell me how marriage benefits men. Especially the men who are post child-rearing that I am discussing. Tell me how hitching your man-wagon to their cart of problems benefits me. I'll listen respectfully. You have the floor.

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Your grown arse daughter sleeps in your bed because it helps her feel “secure”

What the frick lol.

I don’t think your perspective or advice on this topic is worth much. You seem like a doormat people pleaser.