re: Soft White Underbelly- A Divorce Attorney’s Thoughts on Love and Marriage

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And he was very correct that divorce affects women greatly afterwards. Men take the monetary brunt of it but we can form another relationship. Divorced women, especially with kids, tend to be considered tainted. Women have put value in taking the money but not their emotional happiness

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Agreed provided children aren't involved. The very worst outcomes are often for the men who were both financially ruined and lose access to their children.

A lot of those guys end up killing themselves. There needs to be default shared custody, automatic paternity testing, and criminal penalties plus loss of custodial rights for false claims of domestic or child abuse.