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re: Follow up re: my imminent divorce UPDATE PG 20
Posted on 8/5/23 at 8:31 am to TexasTiger08
Posted on 8/5/23 at 8:31 am to TexasTiger08
quote:Question:
I mean, I’m lonely because she left me
How many people on this planet CAN you* completely control?
(Hint: it’s an integer between zero and two)
So far you have not controlled yourself yet.
Get mastery of yourself and you’ll attract quality women.
Choose one of them to not be lonely with.
Good luck.
*universally applies, not just you specifically
Posted on 8/5/23 at 8:35 am to soccerfüt
This guy says his wife’s a teacher so we might get an arrest thread once school starts
Posted on 8/5/23 at 8:52 am to soccerfüt
I’ve been following your story and I’m really sorry you’re having to go through all of this. Talk to your therapist, follow their advice, and take your time to mourn the relationship. Hopefully the findings of the paternity test will give you some answers that allow you to either prepare for fatherhood (a blessing) or completely close the chapter on this relationship and move on (also a blessing).
But I’m going to say, from a female perspective, you need to take control of your life. The self pity and sad sap routine will only attract another woman who will not respect you. You should want a partner, not a caretaker.
If this is the place where you anonymously post your sad thoughts and feelings but you manage to keep your shite together in your real life, then cool. But if you’re letting the grief and sadness control you in all aspects of your life, you need to work through it in therapy so that you can move on and build a better future for yourself and your future family.
But I’m going to say, from a female perspective, you need to take control of your life. The self pity and sad sap routine will only attract another woman who will not respect you. You should want a partner, not a caretaker.
If this is the place where you anonymously post your sad thoughts and feelings but you manage to keep your shite together in your real life, then cool. But if you’re letting the grief and sadness control you in all aspects of your life, you need to work through it in therapy so that you can move on and build a better future for yourself and your future family.
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