re: Follow up re: my imminent divorce UPDATE PG 20

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using all of your newfound free time to improve yourself, not even for someone else, just for yourself.

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this is key. And it includes figuring out how your current marriage unraveled, taking honest stock in your part. Not easy to see yourself from someone else's point of view. Much easier to be defensive or play the victim.

I've seen many friends cart all their unaddressed baggage with them to the next (younger) chick only to have that implode even quicker.