re: Need advice

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I’ll admit I’m not the smartest guy. After he was born we had to do a lot of paperwork to transition both of them from California to Dubai and I screwed up on some of the documents. When we were rotating shifts on who was watching him, I failed to set my alarm a couple times and ended up sleeping for 7-8 hours which she was not happy about. There was a week where I couldn’t do anything right, from wrapping his diaper tight enough to where it wouldn’t leak to not getting all the groceries. A big one was I lied about my hours at work. I left at 1 to go to work at 2 only to find out I was scheduled until 5( honest mistake) and instead of telling her the truth and doing something positive like go get groceries, I went to my apartment and slept until work at 5.

I am a recovering addict and after leaving them both in Dubai and coming back home I relapsed but have recovered. I’m sure that’s a reason she doesn’t want me around.

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Ok I'm done trolling.

Your first step should be getting yourself in order. It sounds like you're still a mess, and that's the reason your ex left with your son. Get into counseling and a recovery program, get your shite straight, then worry about being there for your son. If you somehow get back into his life and you're still making mistakes like this, you're not doing anyone any good.