re: During a divorce, if one spouse makes

You guys may have agreed on 50-50 custody, but one of you has to be named primary custodian, which means that person has the say-so if you guys disagree on something. Unless your wife is a crackhead or prostitute, she's most likely going to be named the custodial parent. I think that's total BS, but it happened to me so just be prepared.

I would say get a great attorney, but I did that and got screwed. Once I had my initial meeting with the attorney and wrote the check, I never spoke to him directly until the day we went to court. I spoke to his secretary or his paralegal and when we went to court he didn't know who I was.

We actually never made it in front of the judge because we negotiated everything before our scheduled time, but that was after I also went off on my attorney because he was trying to rush me. I told him I paid him a lot of money and he was going to stay for as long as I needed him.

My advice, don't get a high priced attorney and do your best to try and work directly with your ex on the details. Remember, it's all about the kids, not you guys. Good luck!