re: Why do women make plans or volunteer your time

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Hell no.

Don’t make excuses. She’s in the wrong not you.

Tell her that if you weren’t party to the agreement you aren’t obligated to help her friend.

If she wants to help her move, great.

If she wants your help she can consult you ahead of time or try to bargain with you for something you want…

As soon as you feel the need to make excuses for spending your time you’ve set a precedent.

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1,000,000 upvotes. I reposted the whole thing since we flipped to the third page.

Your GF is supposed to consider her direct blood relatives needs first, then yours. When you get married (please don't) this swaps.

Realize she's putting these people, and the social "credit" that women love before your needs, wants and desires. Schedule a therapy session, do not buy a ring.