re: How do people cope with separation or divorce?

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i stalked my soon to be ex till the divorce was final. Not recomended

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You were moonlighting with one of LLotOT, weren't you? Joking. Good luck.

To the OP - It sounds like you have something salvageable. UNLESS she has washed her hands of you. When women are done, they are usually done. They will kitchen sink everything you ever did wrong, in the unlikely event she will take you back. But, be humble and try, on behalf of your children. If she won't have you back, then you have the whole world to explore. It's scary, awesome, intimidating and terrifying. But it means you get to define yourself, as an individual and as a father. Best wishes.