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re: "Pick me girl" good or bad?

Posted on 3/4/23 at 6:40 pm to
Posted by fr33manator
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Posted on 3/4/23 at 6:40 pm to
Stay sassy ladies.


Keep 'em in line
Posted by Aspercel
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Posted on 3/4/23 at 6:41 pm to
Thank god most of us actually like and can get along with other women

Slag, did you inform the new girl of the hair rules?
Posted by WTHisgoingon
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Posted on 3/4/23 at 6:41 pm to
May I ask questions without judgement..."pick me girl" is a new term to me ...am just curious...
Posted by Cheese Grits
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Posted on 3/4/23 at 6:42 pm to
New to me as well, I am still unsure what it means, even after reading this thread.
Posted by fr33manator
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Posted on 3/4/23 at 6:45 pm to
I know "pick me" boogers are the ones they hang out the end of your nose. In that little pocket. And they kind of bond with the little hairs and the buggers hang on for dear life. You really gotta use your fingers to get 'em to come loose.


Maybe a "pick me " girl is a little like that
Posted by Aspercel
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Posted on 3/4/23 at 6:46 pm to
Sure thing.

But a pick me is a girl who changes her opinion to appeal to the men she is around. Basically saying whatever she thinks will get her the most attention. Therefore, her convictions can change daily. A critical part of this is putting down other women to elevate themselves. They can rarely hold female friendships for any length of time.

The biggest red flag, as slag has pointed out, is using any variation of “I’m just not like other girls”

Commonly seen as well is the classic “I get along with guys so much more than girls”
This post was edited on 3/4/23 at 6:47 pm
Posted by WTHisgoingon
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Posted on 3/4/23 at 6:46 pm to
From my limited understanding, it is a woman that is conservative, traditional in values and considered to be a tom-boy that does not like to deal with the drama that CAN come from women....
Posted by Cheese Grits
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Posted on 3/4/23 at 6:48 pm to
quote:

But a pick me is a girl who changes her opinion to appeal to the men she is around.


Smart women who play dumb are the worst.

quote:

Commonly seen as well is the classic “I get along with guys so much more than girls”


That is the classic tomboy, those do not seem like what you are describing.
Posted by Aspercel
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Posted on 3/4/23 at 6:49 pm to
That’s a new one for me.

I don’t think political leaning has anything to do with it. Or issues with being a tomboy as well…as long as you aren’t putting down and stepping all over other women while making pronouncements that you are said tomboy.

The key here is in the not hating women part.
Posted by Cheese Grits
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Posted on 3/4/23 at 6:50 pm to
Conservative and traditional

Tomboy


Seem like polar opposites?
Posted by Aspercel
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Posted on 3/4/23 at 6:53 pm to
Classic tomboys can get along with other females, therefore they have other female friends. I’ve got plenty of tomboy friends.

Pick mes can’t. They have to constantly try to set themselves apart and put other women down to get the attention they crave.
Posted by Cheese Grits
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Posted on 3/4/23 at 6:54 pm to
quote:

They have to constantly try to set themselves apart and put other women down to get the attention they crave.


So if I am understanding this correctly ...

Pick Me Girl = Narcissist
Posted by Aspercel
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Posted on 3/4/23 at 6:55 pm to
I mean.. yes? I guess? There’s definitely some serious personality deficiencies
Posted by Cheese Grits
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Posted on 3/4/23 at 6:58 pm to
Narcissist (male or female) are some of the worst human beings and oddly the hardest to treat as they are so oblivious to their own faults they are the last to seek mental health help when they need it the most.
Posted by Aspercel
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Posted on 3/4/23 at 6:59 pm to
Best to cut those out of life completely
Posted by 21JumpStreet
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Posted on 3/4/23 at 7:00 pm to
This is why politics suck. Yall just make up shite
Posted by Cheese Grits
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Posted on 3/4/23 at 7:05 pm to
Yes, in theory, yet somehow they are drawn to me like moths to a flame.



If you have mental disorders, I am on your radar.

Posted by GreenRockTiger
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Posted on 3/4/23 at 7:07 pm to
quote:

If you have mental disorders, I am on your radar.
we are now best friends
Posted by Aspercel
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Posted on 3/4/23 at 7:08 pm to


Hey grt
Posted by GreenRockTiger
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Posted on 3/4/23 at 7:10 pm to
Hi Aspy
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