re: Any married baw have to do laundry?

IMO, authorities and roles in marriages and families should never be task driven but I understand why so many do. Same with why so many separate things like bank accounts. It's easier to compartmentalize "mine" and "yours" for many people. It's not how I would ever want to live and marry as a husband and not the example I want to set forward for what to expect in a husband to my daughter when she becomes of age. Should everyone have some of their own personal responsibilities and roles, absolutely but life is too short to dig in my heels over things like not doing laundry or dishes because I do yard work.