What? Yes it does. That's the very essence of what insecurity is, some deficiency in her own psyche.

No one makes another person insecure. It's always there. Situations/circumstances expose that insecurity.

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Posted by lsunurse

Member since Dec 2005

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Posted on 7/3/14 at 3:24 pm to dnm3305

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We are more easily visually stimulated?

Yes

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Posted by asurob1

On the edge of the galaxy

Member since May 2009

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Posted on 7/3/14 at 3:25 pm to dnm3305

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depth of emotion when looking for a mate? We see a red head walk by with a low cut v-neck and a great rack and are mesmerized for 10 mins whereas a female can see a hot guy walk by and glance at his junk and get over it in 5 mins instead?

"Brain imaging studies prove that men show marked increases in blood testosterone levels when exposed to sexually explicit pictures. And researchers studying male sexual fantasies find that men focus entirely on the visual aspects of sex (especially genitals).

Women may get aroused by the sight of a good-looking man, they don't necessarily want to have sex with him — for women, there's a huge gap between sexual excitement and availability for intercourse.

And while studies show that erotic visual stimuli do excite women, a woman's desire for sex depends more on psychological factors and whether or not she has an existing relationship in her life."

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Posted by kingbob

Sorrento, LA

Member since Nov 2010

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Posted on 7/3/14 at 3:29 pm to Goldrush25

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What? Yes it does. That's the very essence of what insecurity is, some deficiency in her own psyche.

No one makes another person insecure. It's always there. Situations/circumstances expose that insecurity.

Exactly. It comes from not loving yourself. Guys are less prone to insecurity issues about their appearances for some reason. It's kind of the classic dilemma of a fat guy looks in the mirror and sees himself as a sexy hunk while a skinny girl looks in the mirror and sees a fat ugly whale. Insecurity stems from how we see ourselves. For some women, no matter how much visual evidence to the contrary, no matter how many complements they receive, and no matter how many guys they catch drooling all over her they will never believe that they are attractive. It can create this horrific spiral later in married life where they think they're hidious and stop trying in the bedroom and in the gym because they get hopeless. The husband assumes he's not getting laid because she's not attracted to him anymore, she assumes the inverse, and they both go on until one of them cheats. Him, because he has a controlling bitch at home who never gives it up, and her because "he made me feel wanted".

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