Started By
Message

re: Why do so many couples not sign prenuptial agreements?

Posted on 3/10/14 at 11:36 pm to
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 3/10/14 at 11:36 pm to
scary number regardless
Posted by Teddy Ruxpin
Member since Oct 2006
39590 posts
Posted on 3/10/14 at 11:38 pm to
quote:

Basically, the 50% number was taken by dividing the number of marriages in a given year by the number of divorces in that year. Statistically, that makes zero sense because most of the time, people don't get married and divorced in the same year. They also don't consider whether it's the first, second, third etc. marriage/divorce.



Ding ding ding

quote:

Agreed. This always bugs me when I hear it because people that use it ignore other variables. For instance, if both people are college graduates, the divorce rate goes way down.



Ding ding ding again.

Lower class folk are a really fricked up bunch. Commit tons of crime and lean heavily on divorce rates as well. Basically, whatever negative stat you can find about the human condition, don't assume it applies to all of them.
Posted by Jet12
Tweet, tweet, tweet, two steps.
Member since Nov 2010
20554 posts
Posted on 3/10/14 at 11:42 pm to
quote:

scary number regardless


Not that scary when you know it's meaningless.

You just can't really give a blanket statistic without considering the variables - age, education, wealth, number of previous marriages and divorces, etc.
LINK
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33794 posts
Posted on 3/10/14 at 11:46 pm to
Is anyone arguing that pre-nuptial agreements are not a practical device to introduce into a marriage? I believe that was my original premise, not specifically the 50% number. A central component of marriage is the merging of assets.
This post was edited on 3/10/14 at 11:47 pm
Posted by Jet12
Tweet, tweet, tweet, two steps.
Member since Nov 2010
20554 posts
Posted on 3/10/14 at 11:53 pm to
quote:

Is anyone arguing that pre-nuptial agreements are not a practical device to introduce into a marriage? I believe that was my original premise, not specifically the 50% number. A central component of marriage is the merging of assets.


It's just discussing how necessary it is to do. It'd be more important if the rate really was that high. Realistically, it also depends on the assets brought in (i.e., difference in incomes).
Posted by CurDog
Member since Jan 2007
28082 posts
Posted on 3/10/14 at 11:54 pm to
quote:

It's just discussing how necessary it is to do. It'd be more important if the rate really was that high. Realistically, it also depends on the assets brought in (i.e., difference in incomes).


whew, glad mrs dog did not ask to have one
Posted by urinetrouble
Member since Oct 2007
20509 posts
Posted on 3/10/14 at 11:58 pm to
If you go into a marriage already thinking it might end in divorce, you're likely in trouble. Not saying it isn't a good idea, but at time it's like buying flood insurance when you're convinced you're on high ground.
Posted by GaryMyMan
Shreveport
Member since May 2007
13498 posts
Posted on 3/11/14 at 8:04 am to
quote:

Lower class folk are a really fricked up bunch. Commit tons of crime and lean heavily on divorce rates as well.

In my experience they're also too stupid to get the divorce finalized by a judgement, turning their property rights into a total shite-show.

Also: truly wealthy people have little need for prenups because they're smart enough not to create a lot of community property.
Posted by Fast_Eddie
Member since Feb 2014
193 posts
Posted on 3/11/14 at 8:06 am to
You don't have to in Texas to protect pre-marriage assets or inheritance. That's why I didn't worry about it.
Posted by Hardy_Har
MS
Member since Nov 2012
16285 posts
Posted on 3/11/14 at 8:08 am to
Posted by Putty
Member since Oct 2003
25488 posts
Posted on 3/11/14 at 8:08 am to
quote:

Why do so many couples not sign prenuptial agreements?


Because if reason were guiding their decisions, they wouldn't be getting married in the first place. /wiki
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
84192 posts
Posted on 3/11/14 at 8:09 am to
quote:

Usually don't need to. Unless you own your own business or have substantial wealth really no reason to.


This, but good luck convincing the young kids on here trying to act badass.
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
67493 posts
Posted on 3/11/14 at 8:09 am to
quote:

Taking precautions doesn't mean you have no faith in your relationship to last.

Uhhhhh yes it does. I understand from a "practical" standpoint but you're basically saying "Honey I love you but"
Posted by Fast_Eddie
Member since Feb 2014
193 posts
Posted on 3/11/14 at 8:09 am to
quote:

Posted by Monk

You'll understand when you pitch it to your fiancé one day.


This, go sign your prenup on the third date as a "haha joke". Then, if you do end up marrying your gf, then get divorced , you can say,"before you run to your lawyer , remember that third date? MWAHAHA".
Posted by Fast_Eddie
Member since Feb 2014
193 posts
Posted on 3/11/14 at 8:12 am to
Also, prenups sometimes mean that you cannot get married in the Catholic Church , if you have a prenup, supposedly there is a tribunal process or something like that to determine if you can be married in the Catholic Church.
Posted by FenrirTheBeard
NOLA
Member since Jun 2012
6433 posts
Posted on 3/11/14 at 8:14 am to
I will ask my gf later this evening how she feels about them. Will report back.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
97666 posts
Posted on 3/11/14 at 8:19 am to
Most people don't have money when they get married...or not enough to make a prenup worth it
Posted by Fast_Eddie
Member since Feb 2014
193 posts
Posted on 3/11/14 at 8:19 am to
Gf =\= fiancée

My gf was cool with it, when she became my fiancée ...uh not so much, haha. That's why you need to sign that puppy while only dating, strike while the iron is hot

Eta: it wasn't a big deal given that Texas protects pre married assets
This post was edited on 3/11/14 at 8:23 am
Posted by constant cough
Lafayette
Member since Jun 2007
44788 posts
Posted on 3/11/14 at 8:21 am to
quote:

Marriage is for bigger pussies.



Marriage is for Gays.
Posted by Bullfrog
Institutionalized but Unevaluated
Member since Jul 2010
56330 posts
Posted on 3/11/14 at 8:23 am to
First marriage, clean slate. Who needs a prenup? Go all in.
first pageprev pagePage 3 of 8Next pagelast page

Back to top
logoFollow TigerDroppings for LSU Football News
Follow us on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram to get the latest updates on LSU Football and Recruiting.

FacebookTwitterInstagram