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re: Should I be ashamed?
Posted on 6/29/14 at 9:02 pm to UncleLester
Posted on 6/29/14 at 9:02 pm to UncleLester
Uncle Lester there are 2 very simple options here.
1. Move the frick on and stop bitching about what already happened. Go find a woman and the first day you figure out you want to make it a relationship make sure it's exclusive and not open.
2. Try to make it work and sit down talk to her like a man and say hey from here on we are either exclusive or just dating around and having fun and anything goes.
First mistake was not having that level of communication established of what y'all were. Second mistake was at 4am if it was a car that wasn't familiar the you should of took care of it then. Third mistake was beating around the bush at the BBQ. Get to the point and get answers even if you almost know what happened.
1. Move the frick on and stop bitching about what already happened. Go find a woman and the first day you figure out you want to make it a relationship make sure it's exclusive and not open.
2. Try to make it work and sit down talk to her like a man and say hey from here on we are either exclusive or just dating around and having fun and anything goes.
First mistake was not having that level of communication established of what y'all were. Second mistake was at 4am if it was a car that wasn't familiar the you should of took care of it then. Third mistake was beating around the bush at the BBQ. Get to the point and get answers even if you almost know what happened.
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Posted on 6/29/14 at 9:03 pm to UncleLester
Uncle Lester there are 2 very simple options here.
1. Move the frick on and stop bitching about what already happened. Go find a woman and the first day you figure out you want to make it a relationship make sure it's exclusive and not open.
2. Try to make it work and sit down talk to her like a man and say hey from here on we are either exclusive or just dating around and having fun and anything goes.
First mistake was not having that level of communication established of what y'all were. Second mistake was at 4am if it was a car that wasn't familiar the you should of took care of it then. Third mistake was beating around the bush at the BBQ. Get to the point and get answers even if you almost know what happened.
1. Move the frick on and stop bitching about what already happened. Go find a woman and the first day you figure out you want to make it a relationship make sure it's exclusive and not open.
2. Try to make it work and sit down talk to her like a man and say hey from here on we are either exclusive or just dating around and having fun and anything goes.
First mistake was not having that level of communication established of what y'all were. Second mistake was at 4am if it was a car that wasn't familiar the you should of took care of it then. Third mistake was beating around the bush at the BBQ. Get to the point and get answers even if you almost know what happened.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 9:04 pm to UncleLester
quote:
I had told her how I felt after 3 months in and got the "well, let's just see how things go". So, I had previously put my intentions out there.
This meant she's not that into you/she was more into at least one other person she was banging. You hung around anyway and made an arse out of yourself. Drop it.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 9:05 pm to GalvestonTiger12
Pretty good advice. You didn't need to repeat it. 
Posted on 6/29/14 at 9:05 pm to Tiger Ryno
quote:
Whatever happened to acting like a man??
These days its easier to text instead of facing the music face to face.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 9:06 pm to UncleLester
My recommendation is to just cut it completely. Delete the number and don't respond to any communication. She'll understand after a day or two.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 9:07 pm to Deactived
quote:
These days its easier to text instead of facing the music face to face.
Face to face would have been better but making a scene at a BBQ would have been childish.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 9:14 pm to Deactived
What respect does he owe her? He tried to tell the girl he wanted a relationship face to face and instead of leveling with him and breaking it off she sat on the fence. Hundred bucks she knew how he really felt, but wanted to hold out for a better option.
This post was edited on 6/29/14 at 9:16 pm
Posted on 6/29/14 at 9:18 pm to TheDrunkenTigah
For lack of better words, he handled it like a bitch.
Stop playing these little childish mind games and come out with it.
There's details left out of this imo
Stop playing these little childish mind games and come out with it.
There's details left out of this imo
Posted on 6/29/14 at 9:21 pm to Deactived
How would you have handled it? We only have what he's said to go on. He already admitted he could have handled the BBQ a little better. What was he supposed to do? Get into a huge argument in front of everyone?
Posted on 6/29/14 at 9:22 pm to UncleLester
Yes
Posted on 6/29/14 at 9:24 pm to Deactived
What game? What's childish about calmly and maturely telling her it's over? I guess he could do that face to face, but IMO she lost that respect when she knew the score but didn't have the balls to end it. Both sexes are guilty of keeping someone around they know they aren't serious about out of insecurity, so don't think I'm just being a kash about this, but OP is doing the right thing.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 9:28 pm to UncleLester
She sounds like a count and you sound like a good guy. Ignore all the dipshit 30 year olds in this thread trying to act cool.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 9:29 pm to GeauxxxTigers23
Talk to her.
Maybe take her aside and say hey we need to talk. You don't have to make a scene but don't play this I'm gonna play hide and seek and ask a message board for my next move
Maybe take her aside and say hey we need to talk. You don't have to make a scene but don't play this I'm gonna play hide and seek and ask a message board for my next move
Posted on 6/29/14 at 9:32 pm to Deactived
He's probably talking to her right now because she drove over to his place in tears. Either that or she found out he posted this.
We better get an update after she leaves.
We better get an update after she leaves.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 9:36 pm to Deactived
quote:
take her aside and say hey we need to talk.
sounds an awful lot like
quote:
make a scene
to me
What do they have left to talk about anyway? Things would be a LOT different if he had never mentioned he wanted a relationship, but he did. She knew fricking someone else without at least telling him it wasn't going anywhere was wrong, that's why she wants to talk to him so bad.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 9:38 pm to GeauxxxTigers23
quote:
We better get an update
Yeah, I'm interested to see how this plays out
Posted on 6/29/14 at 9:39 pm to TheDrunkenTigah
Lol how is that making a scene? I mean he's been dating her for months. How is talking to her on the side makinga scene. I doubt the BBQ was just one big circle of people in 1 convo.
Ask her wtf is going on. If the dude was bragging(do we know if this is true or not?), confront her about it and go from there. This could easily be done without making a scene
Ask her wtf is going on. If the dude was bragging(do we know if this is true or not?), confront her about it and go from there. This could easily be done without making a scene
Posted on 6/29/14 at 9:39 pm to GeauxxxTigers23
quote:
He's probably talking to her right now because she drove over to his place in tears. Either that or she found out he posted this.
Your advice and what happens after said advice seems like you read it in a frat stars way to oussy guide.
You are giving movie advjve and no way a girl who is gettin fricked is in tears. Andno way someone so heary broken they run to ot hasnt read her text
Posted on 6/29/14 at 9:40 pm to UncleLester
Would have really sucked if she'd come up and said "I really wanted you to meet my brother, he's visiting this weekend."
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