re: Sex: Desirability vs. Frequency

Based on the replies so far, the question may be...do you prefer quality or quantity? Assuming desirability is even, consider:

Option 1: She is ready and willing 1-2 times per week but just lays on her back and lets you do most all the work. She’s into plain ol missionary with the lights off and shudders at the thought of any creative games/foreplay, different positions, oral, etc.

Option 2: She is only offering 1-2 times a month but is active (even aggressive) in the sack. She’s willing to take the lead and is at least open to trying new things, fulfilling your big (but not outrageous) fantasies, etc.

What say you?