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re: Question on secks etiquette

Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:16 pm to
Posted by skygod123
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Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:16 pm to
my thoughts...

she was ambiguous on her boundaries. And, thats not your fault, but it is your problem now. You should tell her that you have thought about it and wanted to talk to her about her being upset about how you finished the other night.

Tell her that and made an assumption based on preconceived notions. And, that you realized after the fact that it was very unsettling to her. Apologize for how it upset her and let her know that you both decided to take things slow... and that you want to respect her wishes and only want to do things she is comfortable with. And, ask her what is in her comfort zone going forward.

This conversation will let her know that you didnt foresee it being an issue, show her that you are a good at communication and that the last thing you want to do is piss her off in that way. and it will give you a fricking idea of whats in and out of bounds so you can keep getting your dick wet.

You are welcome.
Posted by skygod123
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Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:17 pm to
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I'm glad you started this cause I had a question too.

If a girl comes home with you, takes most of her clothes off, but in the end falls asleep or doesn't let you bang her, is it not OK to beat off on her tits after she falls asleep?
are you serious? because there is so much fail right here...
Posted by Count Chocula
Tier 5 and proud
Member since Feb 2009
63908 posts
Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:19 pm to
quote:

my thoughts... she was ambiguous on her boundaries. And, thats not your fault, but it is your problem now. You should tell her that you have thought about it and wanted to talk to her about her being upset about how you finished the other night. Tell her that and made an assumption based on preconceived notions. And, that you realized after the fact that it was very unsettling to her. Apologize for how it upset her and let her know that you both decided to take things slow... and that you want to respect her wishes and only want to do things she is comfortable with. And, ask her what is in her comfort zone going forward. This conversation will let her know that you didnt foresee it being an issue, show her that you are a good at communication and that the last thing you want to do is piss her off in that way. and it will give you a fricking idea of whats in and out of bounds so you can keep getting your dick wet. You are welcome.


Are you serious? Just tell her to hit the fricking road. If she doesn't leave, give her the other black eye.
This post was edited on 6/17/14 at 1:20 pm
Posted by piratedude
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Member since Oct 2009
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Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:26 pm to
if she's stupid enough to let you bare-back her and think that pulling out is effective, you should probably move on.
Posted by skygod123
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Member since Nov 2007
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Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:26 pm to
quote:

Wife = leave in

Girlfriend = pull out
fin, sometimes you are too fast a treat your gfs like your wife...
Posted by skygod123
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Member since Nov 2007
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Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:27 pm to
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Go ahead and frick her anyway -- Trillhog
Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
76774 posts
Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:28 pm to
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My question to the OT is: if a girl allows you to not use a condom, isn't it a reasonable expectation from a man's perspective that you can finish inside her?


lol wtf?

Why would you ever do this unless you want babies? If I was that chick I'd be weirded out
Posted by lrabor3
Jena
Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:28 pm to
quote:

Wife= leave in
Girlfriend= pull out


^^This
Posted by LesMiles BFF
Lafayette
Member since May 2014
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Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:29 pm to
quote:

If I was that chick I'd be weirded out


Am I the only one here that's surprised she didn't say a damn thing till the cork had been popped?
Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
76774 posts
Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:30 pm to
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Just bust on her belly button dumbass

Do you want babies?

Because that's how you get babies.



This and I lol'ed.
Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
76774 posts
Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:31 pm to
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Am I the only one here that's surprised she didn't say a damn thing till the cork had been popped?


yes usually they do, but sometimes they forget. Its pretty well-known rule of thumb not to nut inside some chick you've barely hung out with.

I don't care if she has an IUD and is taking birth control pills. I ain't doing that.


People are frickign stupid
Posted by CheeseburgerEddie
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Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:31 pm to
it happened, I thought it was kind of funny. She didn't though.

ETA: for clarification, it wasn't some random person that I had met that evening.
This post was edited on 6/17/14 at 1:43 pm
Posted by skygod123
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Member since Nov 2007
27882 posts
Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:32 pm to
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I the only one here that's surprised she didn't say a damn thing till the cork had been popped?
i think its on a female to communicate her boundaries.

i mean i tell every guy i meet online "NO FISTING ON the FIRST DATE"...
Posted by LesMiles BFF
Lafayette
Member since May 2014
5101 posts
Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:32 pm to
quote:

you've barely hung out with.


Is 10 times a lot?

IDK
Posted by skygod123
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Member since Nov 2007
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Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:34 pm to
quote:

Is 10 times a lot?

IDK

its relative.

i dated someone where we hung out for 3 weekends in a row which was 10 days when we hooked up... and ive hung out with guys who i went on 10 dates with in 2-3 months and never went all the way.

its whenever you two are both comfortable.
Posted by LesMiles BFF
Lafayette
Member since May 2014
5101 posts
Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:34 pm to
quote:

"NO FISTING ON the FIRST DATE"


I went out with a girl I met on eharmony that had this as the tag line under her profile picture...




















...she was a liar.
Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
76774 posts
Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:35 pm to
quote:

Is 10 times a lot?

IDK



Not really, and this is first time they fricked.

I would bust on dat belly until marriage. I am engaged and been with my woman for 6 years and still don't nut inside despite her being on birth control the entire time we've been together.

I AINT NEED NO BABY
Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
76774 posts
Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:36 pm to
quote:

its whenever you two are both drunk.
Posted by LesMiles BFF
Lafayette
Member since May 2014
5101 posts
Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:36 pm to
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I am engaged and been with my woman for 6 years and still don't nut inside despite her being on birth control


Holy shite, bro.

Paranoid much?
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
83845 posts
Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:36 pm to
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i mean i tell every guy i meet online "NO FISTING ON the FIRST DATE"...



got to admire that in a woman
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