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re: Question on secks etiquette
Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:16 pm to drtiger
Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:16 pm to drtiger
my thoughts...
she was ambiguous on her boundaries. And, thats not your fault, but it is your problem now. You should tell her that you have thought about it and wanted to talk to her about her being upset about how you finished the other night.
Tell her that and made an assumption based on preconceived notions. And, that you realized after the fact that it was very unsettling to her. Apologize for how it upset her and let her know that you both decided to take things slow... and that you want to respect her wishes and only want to do things she is comfortable with. And, ask her what is in her comfort zone going forward.
This conversation will let her know that you didnt foresee it being an issue, show her that you are a good at communication and that the last thing you want to do is piss her off in that way. and it will give you a fricking idea of whats in and out of bounds so you can keep getting your dick wet.
You are welcome.
she was ambiguous on her boundaries. And, thats not your fault, but it is your problem now. You should tell her that you have thought about it and wanted to talk to her about her being upset about how you finished the other night.
Tell her that and made an assumption based on preconceived notions. And, that you realized after the fact that it was very unsettling to her. Apologize for how it upset her and let her know that you both decided to take things slow... and that you want to respect her wishes and only want to do things she is comfortable with. And, ask her what is in her comfort zone going forward.
This conversation will let her know that you didnt foresee it being an issue, show her that you are a good at communication and that the last thing you want to do is piss her off in that way. and it will give you a fricking idea of whats in and out of bounds so you can keep getting your dick wet.
You are welcome.
Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:17 pm to CheeseburgerEddie
quote:are you serious? because there is so much fail right here...
I'm glad you started this cause I had a question too.
If a girl comes home with you, takes most of her clothes off, but in the end falls asleep or doesn't let you bang her, is it not OK to beat off on her tits after she falls asleep?
Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:19 pm to skygod123
quote:
my thoughts... she was ambiguous on her boundaries. And, thats not your fault, but it is your problem now. You should tell her that you have thought about it and wanted to talk to her about her being upset about how you finished the other night. Tell her that and made an assumption based on preconceived notions. And, that you realized after the fact that it was very unsettling to her. Apologize for how it upset her and let her know that you both decided to take things slow... and that you want to respect her wishes and only want to do things she is comfortable with. And, ask her what is in her comfort zone going forward. This conversation will let her know that you didnt foresee it being an issue, show her that you are a good at communication and that the last thing you want to do is piss her off in that way. and it will give you a fricking idea of whats in and out of bounds so you can keep getting your dick wet. You are welcome.
Are you serious? Just tell her to hit the fricking road. If she doesn't leave, give her the other black eye.
This post was edited on 6/17/14 at 1:20 pm
Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:26 pm to drtiger
if she's stupid enough to let you bare-back her and think that pulling out is effective, you should probably move on.
Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:26 pm to yellowfin
quote:fin, sometimes you are too fast a treat your gfs like your wife...
Wife = leave in
Girlfriend = pull out
Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:27 pm to SG_Geaux
quote:
Go ahead and frick her anyway -- Trillhog

Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:28 pm to drtiger
quote:
My question to the OT is: if a girl allows you to not use a condom, isn't it a reasonable expectation from a man's perspective that you can finish inside her?
lol wtf?
Why would you ever do this unless you want babies? If I was that chick I'd be weirded out

Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:28 pm to yellowfin
quote:
Wife= leave in
Girlfriend= pull out
^^This

Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:29 pm to TheCaterpillar
quote:
If I was that chick I'd be weirded out
Am I the only one here that's surprised she didn't say a damn thing till the cork had been popped?
Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:30 pm to broeho
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Just bust on her belly button dumbass
Do you want babies?
Because that's how you get babies.
This and I lol'ed.
Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:31 pm to LesMiles BFF
quote:
Am I the only one here that's surprised she didn't say a damn thing till the cork had been popped?
yes usually they do, but sometimes they forget. Its pretty well-known rule of thumb not to nut inside some chick you've barely hung out with.
I don't care if she has an IUD and is taking birth control pills. I ain't doing that.
People are frickign stupid

Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:31 pm to skygod123
it happened, I thought it was kind of funny. She didn't though.
ETA: for clarification, it wasn't some random person that I had met that evening.
ETA: for clarification, it wasn't some random person that I had met that evening.
This post was edited on 6/17/14 at 1:43 pm
Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:32 pm to LesMiles BFF
quote:i think its on a female to communicate her boundaries.
I the only one here that's surprised she didn't say a damn thing till the cork had been popped?
i mean i tell every guy i meet online "NO FISTING ON the FIRST DATE"...
Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:32 pm to TheCaterpillar
quote:
you've barely hung out with.
Is 10 times a lot?
IDK
Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:34 pm to LesMiles BFF
quote:
Is 10 times a lot?
IDK
its relative.
i dated someone where we hung out for 3 weekends in a row which was 10 days when we hooked up... and ive hung out with guys who i went on 10 dates with in 2-3 months and never went all the way.
its whenever you two are both comfortable.
Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:34 pm to skygod123
quote:
"NO FISTING ON the FIRST DATE"
I went out with a girl I met on eharmony that had this as the tag line under her profile picture...
...she was a liar.
Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:35 pm to LesMiles BFF
quote:
Is 10 times a lot?
IDK
Not really, and this is first time they fricked.
I would bust on dat belly until marriage. I am engaged and been with my woman for 6 years and still don't nut inside despite her being on birth control the entire time we've been together.
I AINT NEED NO BABY
Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:36 pm to skygod123
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its whenever you two are both drunk.
Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:36 pm to TheCaterpillar
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I am engaged and been with my woman for 6 years and still don't nut inside despite her being on birth control
Holy shite, bro.
Paranoid much?

Posted on 6/17/14 at 1:36 pm to skygod123
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i mean i tell every guy i meet online "NO FISTING ON the FIRST DATE"...
got to admire that in a woman
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