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Posted on 8/19/18 at 2:49 pm to The Baker
My wife’s parent paid like they are supposed to. Mine paid rehearsal dinner and honeymoon like they are supposed to
Posted on 8/19/18 at 2:50 pm to ThatMakesSense
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Posted on 8/19/18 at 2:52 pm to yellowfin
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My wife’s parent paid like they are supposed to. Mine paid rehearsal dinner and honeymoon like they are supposed to
Yeah but she’s meh and knew you were their once chance to get her out the house
Posted on 8/19/18 at 2:52 pm to The Baker
We did, wife’s father passed away 2yrs before, and I wasn’t taking money from MIL
Posted on 8/19/18 at 2:53 pm to The Baker
I paid for my own wedding.
Posted on 8/19/18 at 2:54 pm to The Baker
quote:Because you seem lost about all this.
Why do you assume I don’t know this?
Posted on 8/19/18 at 2:54 pm to MrLarson
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Posted on 8/19/18 at 2:54 pm to The Baker
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I’m just trying to gauge if the sentiment about this cultural norm has shifted. 30 - 40 years ago, for sure, it was earlier marraige with parents helping out with the wedding. I’m guessing that tradition is no longer around?
Its most definitely changed. Do what's best. I wouldn't rely on anyone as a grown adult.
Posted on 8/19/18 at 2:55 pm to Bullfrog
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Posted on 8/19/18 at 2:58 pm to The Baker
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I’m just trying to gauge if the sentiment about this cultural norm has shifted. 30 - 40 years ago, for sure, it was earlier marraige with parents helping out with the wedding. I’m guessing that tradition is no longer around?
Problem is back in the day young people respected parents paying for a wedding. They didn't try to out do their feiends on social media and try to break the bank on their parents.
My DIL made her father drop 40k on her wedding. Sure we paid for the rehearsal dinner and and honeymoon accommodations. But she needed a foot in her arse for making her father drop that kind of money.
Posted on 8/19/18 at 2:59 pm to The Baker
We paid for most of ours. My grandfather paid for the food and wine/liquor and let us use his ranch as our venue.
Posted on 8/19/18 at 3:00 pm to MrLarson
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They didn't try to out do their feiends on social media and try to break the bank on their parents.

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Posted on 8/19/18 at 3:00 pm to HoustonChick86
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Posted on 8/19/18 at 3:02 pm to MrLarson
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Posted on 8/19/18 at 3:02 pm to The Baker
My wife and I paid for the vast majority of our wedding. We had the means, although we did have to sacrifice a lot, and her parents are putting three kids through HS/college. Frankly, weddings are so expensive nowadays that I can't blame anyone for putting priorities elsewhere.
It was, however, irritating when my MIL started complaining about champagne over prosecco (I'm not making this up).
It was, however, irritating when my MIL started complaining about champagne over prosecco (I'm not making this up).
Posted on 8/19/18 at 3:03 pm to The Baker
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Sorry you’re confused
Posted on 8/19/18 at 3:04 pm to Bullfrog
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? I know you’re sorry
You're a reverse morning person. Happy in the AM and grumpy in the afternoon.
Posted on 8/19/18 at 3:06 pm to HoustonChick86
Oh so you’re the storm the beach of Destin wedding! Get dad to drop 300k on a wedding in college debt when you could have a small, cheap ceremony and buy a house.
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Posted on 8/19/18 at 3:07 pm to Newc
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