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Sure there may be the unicorn out there that just wants you physically and doesn't let her emotions interfere with her desire but 99.999% of women do not disconnect the two. It's how they're wired.

Sure. Every couple has fights and arguments. But what i’m Saying is that just because you are having an argument, or disagreement, doesn’t mean you should withhold intimacy.

I’ve found that sometimes it’s better to put the negative emotions to the side, put a song you know she likes on, and just pull her close and kiss her. A real kiss. Deep and passionate. Hold her tight and make her feel your love.

Because if you really love each other, some stupid argument might just be her needing affection and attention. Don’t say you’re sorry. Show her. Words don’t mean a thing.

If you are in the wrong, and actually did something to hurt the relationship, then make amends and show her you are remorseful and committed to making it work.

If it’s just a silly disagreement, well you don’t always have to agree.

And if you did something wrong, don’t feel bad about it, and don’t care to change, maybe you should find another relationship.

Stacking toxic behaviour on top of toxic behaviour is a good way to poison a relationship.

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Posted by fr33manator

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Posted on 3/29/19 at 6:17 pm to ChenierauTigre

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As a woman, I totally agree with you. I have never withheld sex as a punishment. That is utter bullshite and wrong on so many levels.

Been there and had it done to me, and it really messed me up. When I found my freedom again I swore I was never gonna do that again.

If they’re gonna love me, they’re gonna love me flaws and all. And not many arguments survive a night of good, honest passion.
In the afterglow you forget what you were even fighting about.

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