re: Moral Dilemma

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Age, how long y'all dated, how long has she been gone, why didn't y'all date long distance? Why did she have to go away.

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She's 20. We dated for 2 months. She left last July. It was her first time leaving home. Idk, she had a lot of people telling her she needed to see what else was out there. And yes, I know she didn't have to listen to them. She already had a scholarship to that school, and I was not going to try and make her stay and throw that away.

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Have you dated others with sex since she left?

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I have date other girls, but just didn't have the same feeling as her.

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Serious question, don't you see that she wouldn't commit while gone, but while still gone, she's making you wait for her and making sure she still owns you?

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She's not making me do anything. I told her the last time she called me to just leave me alone unless she wanted to be together again. I talk to her aunt from time to time. She said that she told her aunt that she just couldn't picture her and I not being together.

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Because originally she was willing to lose you by leaving, but now she's wanting to k kw where y'all will retire? WTF

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I really didn't know how to take it. She is one of those types that wants to plan everything out before she makes decisions. Myself, I'm spontaneous and a bit of a dreamer. Life has taught me that you can make all the plans you want. That doesn't mean they're always gonna work out, and life surprises can sometimes be the best thing that ever happened to you.