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re: Long Term Relationships ?

Posted on 4/22/14 at 9:47 am to
Posted by hendersonshands
Univ. of Louisiana Ragin Cajuns
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Posted on 4/22/14 at 9:47 am to
You'll never get anyone better
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
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Posted on 4/22/14 at 9:49 am to
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this is not a dress rehearsal. you get one shot at life


a shite ton of folks in India would disagree.
Posted by Col reb 2011
#38
Member since Apr 2013
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Posted on 4/22/14 at 9:50 am to
Had 2 2 1/2 year relationships.. Both headed south but for 1 the sex was amazing and the other was going into vet school so I hung around way to long ended up cheating on both.. If u feel like it's goin down hill best to get off and tell her bye
This post was edited on 4/22/14 at 9:51 am
Posted by TheOcean
#honeyfriedchicken
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Posted on 4/22/14 at 9:51 am to
That's all you got, hendo?
Posted by whit
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
11072 posts
Posted on 4/22/14 at 9:52 am to
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I took a job in Denver and my life has never been better
That's awesome!
Posted by RATeamWannabe
Baton Rouge
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Posted on 4/22/14 at 9:52 am to
Posted by TheOcean
#honeyfriedchicken
Member since Aug 2004
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Posted on 4/22/14 at 9:55 am to
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Both headed south but for 1 the sex was amazing and the other was going into vet school so I hung around way to long ended up cheating on both..


Well that blows. Did you have any idea it was going to come to that?
Posted by TigerFanInSouthland
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2012
28065 posts
Posted on 4/22/14 at 9:57 am to
My thing is, if it don't feel right for one of us then said person needs to end it.

Has nothing to do with alpha or not. If my presence doesn't make someone happy I'm not gonna force them to stay with me.
This post was edited on 4/22/14 at 9:59 am
Posted by Tommy Noble
Member since May 2013
739 posts
Posted on 4/22/14 at 9:59 am to
I ended my relationship of two years, mainly because my SO (being a typically indecisive female) would have never done it. It was clear that we both wanted it to be over, but it would have never ended if I had left it up to her. Don't be complacent, as said before life's too short to remain with someone you know you don't have a future with.
Posted by TheOcean
#honeyfriedchicken
Member since Aug 2004
45763 posts
Posted on 4/22/14 at 9:59 am to
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If my presence doesn't make someone happy I'm not gonna force them to stay with me.


Wise words

And I feel the same way
This post was edited on 4/22/14 at 10:00 am
Posted by TheOcean
#honeyfriedchicken
Member since Aug 2004
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Posted on 4/22/14 at 10:01 am to
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as said before life's too short to remain with someone you know you don't have a future with.



We've been going much longer than 2 yrs and I definitely think there's still a future. But things have gotten stale, boring, and it seems like she wants to fight about something new every week. This has only happened very recently.
This post was edited on 4/22/14 at 10:02 am
Posted by Col reb 2011
#38
Member since Apr 2013
1614 posts
Posted on 4/22/14 at 10:02 am to
yea.. The first one was a cheating whore.. The second one caught me off guard.. She asked me one day what I did for her and I couldn't answer except for saying I love u with a stupid grin.. Live and learn I guess
Posted by Tommy Noble
Member since May 2013
739 posts
Posted on 4/22/14 at 10:03 am to
Well I think the fact that you can acknowledge those things may be a sign that it's time to reconsider if you have a future or not. I'm not saying pull the plug overnight, but don't hang in there just because you've gotten used to that person.
This post was edited on 4/22/14 at 10:04 am
Posted by oldcharlie8
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2012
7832 posts
Posted on 4/22/14 at 10:05 am to
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a shite ton of folks in India would disagree.


well...frick em
Posted by whit
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
11072 posts
Posted on 4/22/14 at 10:09 am to
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We've been going much longer than 2 yrs and I definitely think there's still a future. But things have gotten stale, boring, and it seems like she wants to fight about something new every week.
This is how our relationship was. Not a lot of fighting though. I thought there was a future and at some point that fizzled. Neither of us wanted to work and try to fix it so we moved on.
Posted by DawgCountry
Great State of GA
Member since Sep 2012
33072 posts
Posted on 4/22/14 at 10:14 am to
I did it both times because she was a trick
Posted by RebelNutt
God's Country
Member since Dec 2007
6478 posts
Posted on 4/22/14 at 10:16 am to
I just had the plug pulled on me in one.. Not a good feeling, didnt even see it coming. Its easier when you are the one who ends it for sure.
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33963 posts
Posted on 4/22/14 at 10:17 am to
For what it's worth, I've never heard someone say they pulled the plug on a stale relationship and it was a bad decision.
Posted by whit
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
11072 posts
Posted on 4/22/14 at 10:23 am to
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I just had the plug pulled on me in one.. Not a good feeling, didnt even see it coming. Its easier when you are the one who ends it for sure.
This happened to a buddy of mine. He made it more miserable for himself by checking her facebook all the time. frick that noise.

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For what it's worth, I've never heard someone say they pulled the plug on a stale relationship and it was a bad decision.
This is true.
This post was edited on 4/22/14 at 10:25 am
Posted by RebelNutt
God's Country
Member since Dec 2007
6478 posts
Posted on 4/22/14 at 10:34 am to
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This happened to a buddy of mine. He made it more miserable for himself by checking her facebook all the time. frick that noise.


Yeah im over it, she has pulled this a couple times for absolutely no reason and I always chase after her and make her hang around. In the end, I dont deserve to be treated like that when it is convenient for her. Im letting her walk, and will make no attempt at further communication.
This post was edited on 4/22/14 at 10:37 am
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