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Is it insensitive to wish people a Happy Memorial Day?

Posted on 5/25/14 at 9:14 am
Posted by mizzoukills
Member since Aug 2011
40686 posts
Posted on 5/25/14 at 9:14 am
If so, explain.

On a day of remembrance, can we not be thankful for the people who have fought and died for our freedom, and happily celebrate with our family and friends the fact that we are free due to brave American men and women?

My grandfather fought as a Marine in the Solomon Islands (Guadalcanal) in WWII. He witnessed some of the fiercest fighting imaginable in the Pacific Theatre.

Yet, every year on Memorial Day weekend my grandfather gathered the family together to BBQ, play wiffle ball, croquet, and end the weekend with a bonfire next to the creek on the farm.

Don't get me wrong, he took a long moment to thank the people who died for our freedom during the prayer before the meal.

He was the quintessential American soldier, yet even he celebrated and seemed happy on Memorial Day.
This post was edited on 5/25/14 at 9:35 am
Posted by RATeamWannabe
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2009
26009 posts
Posted on 5/25/14 at 9:19 am to
quote:

It is foolish and wrong to mourn the men who died. Rather we should thank God that such men lived.-G.S. Patton


No, it isn't insensitive. Your grandfather was taking advantage of the liberties that he and his buddies fought so valiantly for.
Posted by mizzoukills
Member since Aug 2011
40686 posts
Posted on 5/25/14 at 9:22 am to
Thank you.

I got attacked on The Rant for wishing the Admins a Happy Memorial Day weekend. Gotdamn assholes.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
83955 posts
Posted on 5/25/14 at 9:26 am to
quote:

I got attacked on The Rant for wishing the Admins a Happy Memorial Day weekend.

you should know to always come here for validation first
Posted by LewDawg
Member since May 2009
76570 posts
Posted on 5/25/14 at 9:26 am to
What do the Admins have to do with Memorial Day?
Posted by RATeamWannabe
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2009
26009 posts
Posted on 5/25/14 at 9:29 am to
I don't have a problem with wishing anyone a Happy Memorial Day. I don't like when people don't know the difference between Memorial Day and Veterans Day or Military Appreciation Day.

Memorial Day= KIA
Veterans Day= All those serving or served during wartime
Military Appreciation Day=all those serving
Posted by LewDawg
Member since May 2009
76570 posts
Posted on 5/25/14 at 9:31 am to
The wartime qualifier is a bit much, but so are you.
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
80605 posts
Posted on 5/25/14 at 9:31 am to
Don't over think it
Posted by DevilDogTiger
RTWFY!
Member since Nov 2007
6500 posts
Posted on 5/25/14 at 9:32 am to
Awesome story but..
quote:

My grandfather fought as a Marine

quote:

He is the quintessential American soldier,


let's not be disrespectful to the man now.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
83955 posts
Posted on 5/25/14 at 9:33 am to
quote:

The wartime qualifier is a bit much, but so are you.


I'm waiting for a REMF day to be declared.
Posted by RATeamWannabe
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2009
26009 posts
Posted on 5/25/14 at 9:36 am to
quote:

let's not be disrespectful to the man now.



quote:

Lew


:comeatmebro:
Posted by mizzoukills
Member since Aug 2011
40686 posts
Posted on 5/25/14 at 9:38 am to


I edited.
Posted by Ponchy Tiger
Ponchatoula
Member since Aug 2004
47767 posts
Posted on 5/25/14 at 9:53 am to
quote:

Is it insensitive to wish people a Happy Memorial Day?


I don't see why it would be, but the true meaning of the day has been kinda skewed. Not intentionally or disrespectfully I might add.

quote:

On a day of remembrance, can we not be thankful for the people who have fought and died for our freedom, and happily celebrate with our family and friends the fact that we are free due to brave American men and women?


Those who have died I am sure wouldn't want it any other way.

quote:

My grandfather fought as a Marine in the Solomon Islands (Guadalcanal) in WWII. He witnessed some of the fiercest fighting imaginable in the Pacific Theatre. Yet, every year on Memorial Day weekend my grandfather gathered the family together to BBQ, play wiffle ball, croquet, and end the weekend with a bonfire next to the creek on the farm. Don't get me wrong, he took a long moment to thank the people who died for our freedom during the prayer before the meal. He was the quintessential American soldier, yet even he celebrated and seemed happy on Memorial Day.


I can't think of a better way to spend the day!!!
Posted by mizzoukills
Member since Aug 2011
40686 posts
Posted on 5/25/14 at 9:59 am to
Thank you.
Posted by Helo
Orlando
Member since Nov 2004
4674 posts
Posted on 5/25/14 at 10:11 am to
quote:

Memorial Day= KIA
Veterans Day= All those serving or served during wartime
Military Appreciation Day=all those serving


So those who served but didn't die in combat but are either alive now or died after the war shouldn't be remembered, right?
Posted by RATeamWannabe
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2009
26009 posts
Posted on 5/25/14 at 10:54 am to
quote:

So those who served but didn't die in combat but are either alive now or died after the war shouldn't be remembered, right?


Reading comprehension apparently not your cup of tea.

In the scenario you described in your post, those men and women are considered veterans, and are remembered and honored on "Veterans Day."

quote:

Memorial Day is a US federal holiday wherein the men and women who died while serving in the United States Armed Forces are remembered

LINK
Posted by Geauxtiga
No man's land
Member since Jan 2008
34381 posts
Posted on 5/25/14 at 10:57 am to
I've never heard much said about Memorial Day around where I grew up- other than it's Memorial Day weekend. No parades, special functions, etc.

Veterans' day is though. There are parades, fly-overs...

Always wondered how one was so missed.
Posted by iliveinabox
in a box
Member since Aug 2011
24127 posts
Posted on 5/25/14 at 11:00 am to
Break out the bbq pit
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