re: Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.

quote:

---

When you talk to her have someone (woman) with you.

For your safety.

You talk to her alone, piss her off and she pulls the "he assaulted me officer" card on you and you will be in deep trouble.

---

Thanks. If she contacts me to talk, I'm going to suggest a place out in the open - not going to be on my property. At this point I suspect she may not even show up to talk and after what I found out today that's fine with me. I just need to communicate to her that she is not to go on my property again or the Sheriff's dept will likely be called out (if I'm not out there).

quote:

---

Thanks. If she contacts me to talk, I'm going to suggest a place out in the open - not going to be on my property. At this point I suspect she may not even show up to talk and after what I found out today that's fine with me. I just need to communicate to her that she is not to go on my property again or the Sheriff's dept will likely be called out (if I'm not out there).

---

you need to not be so soft. dont be ambiguous.be firm. if she goes to property sheriff will be called. stop coddling her, especially since the information you found out about her seems to have you wanting to distance yourself. no likely. no if im not out there.

no exceptions. just clear cut boundaries.

quote:

---

you need to not be so soft. dont be ambiguous.be firm. if she goes to property sheriff will be called. stop coddling her, especially since the information you found out about her seems to have you wanting to distance yourself. no likely. no if im not out there.

no exceptions. just clear cut boundaries.

---

definitely. time to cut all ties

quote:

---

Seems as if this story is going to end as everyone told you from the beginning. Lame ending too since you aren't going to be able to give us any real details on this new information you found out.

It was obvious you were into this girl too.. Kept trying to take her side and give her the benefit of the doubt when she was the problem

---

I think some of y'all are reading way more into this than what the reality is. She's a casual friend. I don't talk to her on the phone. I see her maybe once a month (if that). She is the one who comes out to my place. I have never just showed up at her house to visit. Yeah, she's very nice to look at. I'd by lying if I said otherwise but I'm not stupid enough to get in trouble over an attractive young woman.

quote:

---

As far as any possible illegal activity, you guys will have to let your imaginations run wild on this one...

---

Believe me. My imagination is running pretty wild right now. The best idea that I can think of is that you somehow stumbled onto some kind of ongoing investigation in a slight way.

quote:

---

can't go into specifics but doesn't sound good

---

Well, that's sad. Everything else in this thread before sounded so promising - I was so optimistic for you.

you say you can't go into specifics so can you tell us anything?

quote:

---

you say you can't go into specifics so can you tell us anything?

---

yeah, I did find some information thru a non-law enforcement source that I can talk about.

allegedly she was at some sleazy motel one night this weekend - asked a woman if she could park her car there for a few hours

also found out that her 2 sons are not at home with her - staying at their dad's house for a few weeks. i'm guessing she's gone on some type of "binge" (not sure if that's the correct word)

overall, info sounds pretty bad to me

quote:

---

Whoring herself out to pay for crack.

---

whatever was happening it's a huge red flag in my opinion